HELP! What do I do if.... Post 1

Hey guys! So one of my recent posts was a new thing I'm going to do which is HELP! What do I do if... 
Well, a few of you e-mailed me (jabeautyblogger@gmail.com) and about 15 e-mails so far have come through. I will do like 2 of them at a time. 

OK... Here we go. 

1) Divorced parents. 
Hey, I saw your post about the advice section you are doing and want to ask you something. I know it's probably what a lot of people have sent but I still need help. So recently, my parents have split up and I feel like I have to choose sides. My mum is always saying stuff about my dad behind his back and vice versa. I dont know what to believe or go along with. The worse thing is that it is said in front of me as if they want me to tell the other. 
Please help
xxx

Hey girl, this has happened to me before and I know exactly how it feels. My mum always slagged my dad off and the other way around. What I did was ignore what they were saying and i didn't let it bother me that much. I know that sounds hard, I'm not gonna lie it is but you have to try. Also, if you feel like you can, talk to your parents and tell them how what they say makes you feel. Just don't bottle it a up because in the long run, that isnt going to help. 
Lots of Love
xxx


2) Friendship problems

Hi, I have a problem with my friends. We have one massive group (about 12 of us)  and we are all close with one another, however recently, two of my friends have fallen out and everyone has taken sides. This is tearing the group apart. The only people who haven't taken a side are me and my closest friend. I love everyone in my group and I dont want to take a side because then it looks like I don't like some of them. However, I feel like if I don't take a side, then I will be excluded from the group.
Can you help me please? 

Hi, I come from a huge friendship group too so I know that when a big fallout happens, it can be difficult to deal with. Whatever you do, don't choose a side because the the opposite side will hold something against you. Try and let things sort themselves out and try and get your friends out of this situation if they aren't involved. It's only between a couple of people so no o e else needs to be part of it. You could tell a teacher, they can help sort out friend problems. At least they have helped my group loads in the past. Anyway I this has helped you and I hope things sort themselves out for you. 
Lots of love 
xxx


Ok,so it has only been short, but it is really late where I am and i am so tired. I hope this might have helped you with some of your problems. Remember, if you want me to answer one of your problems just send me an e-mail at jabeautyblogger@gmail.com 
Thank you for reading and i will see you soon  
Lots of love
xxx