Happy Valentines day. This post is very relevant..
How do you know if you are into someone? Hmm good question... Lemme just answer that for you in this post.
It's hard to explain to you how it will feel if you LIKE like someone. You just... know. It's different for everyone...
- some people turn red and get shy and can't think of anything to say
- some people get all fluttery feelings in their stomachs and feel like their walking on the clouds.
But what about when they are a close friend?
I understand about the whole friend thing and becoming attached. Sometimes its very hard. One moment you feel like you feel so close because you have known each other for so long, but you don't want to ruin the friendship because that is exactly what it is. Sometimes seeing your friends with their boy/girl friends is difficult, but I don't think that that is the reason of why you want to pursue a relationship. Sometimes we feel closest and most connected to people that have been with us through our whole lives. Sometimes we feel like the only way to get closer to this person is to be in a relationship with them. You should always give everything a chance but if it doesn't work then remember that if they are a true friend then they won't make you feel awkward after that. Last year I told my best friend that I liked him as more than a friend and I felt so awkward. We spoke and he didn't feel the same way but it was nice to get my feelings out there. It was awkward for about an hour but then we just laughed about it and to be honest, I wasn't disappointed. We are still really close today and I love him as a friend.
So they we have it, How do you know if you are into someone?
Until next time...
Lots of Love
xxx
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